SoCS: baldness

When I was a child, my dad was bald. I didn’t think anything of it. It was just Dad – or as his first grandchild named him, Paco, which is how he is known here at Top of JC’s Mind.

Tucked in a corner of the large mirror over the dresser in my parents’ room was a card that read, “God made just so many perfect heads. The rest He covered with hair.”

When I was in my thirties, a friend was being treated for breast cancer. We were speaking on the phone one day when she told me that so much of her hair had fallen out that her husband was going to shave the remaining strands off later in the day.

I told her about my dad’s card and she laughed about revealing her perfect or maybe not-so-perfect head.

Later that week, she posted a photo of herself, bald with temporary tattoos of butterflies scattered across her scalp.

There was also a saying, “Bald is beautiful.”

She certainly was.
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One-Liner Wednesday: another example of the climate crisis

The drought in London, England is so severe that there was a dust devil over the weekend in Greenwich Park in an area that is usually covered in grass.

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SoCS: travel

When B retired, we had planned to travel more.

More trips to London to see the UK branch of the family.

More mid-week getaways to the Finger Lakes or New England, avoiding the busier weekends and high seasons, now that B didn’t have to work Monday through Friday. Visits to friends and relatives.

We have been doing more travelling, but not in the way we had anticipated.

Instead, we have been doing a lot of medical travelling. A couple of trips to NYC to see the interventional radiologist and do some specialized testing. A trip to Providence, RI at the end of last month to meet with a specialized neurosurgeon. We will return there this fall for surgery. I might need to find an out-of-town nephrologist…

We are hoping that, by next spring, I may be recovered enough to travel for fun again.

It will give me something to dream about as I’m recovering…
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Linda’s prompt for Stream of Concsiousness Saturday this week is “travel.” Join us! Find out more here: https://lindaghill.com/2026/08/07/the-friday-reminder-and-prompt-for-socs-august-8-2026/

One-Liner Wednesday: Chiari

When I saw the specialized neurosurgeon last week, after posting here for positive vibes, they asked what my three most troublesome symptoms are and I answered, “Brain fog, fatigue, and balance problems;” they told me that surgery for Chiari malformation should help all three, so I will have that, probably in late October.

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One-Liner Wednesday: good vibe request

Tomorrow (Thursday), I will have an initial consultation with a specialized neurosurgeon in Rhode Island who may be able to address some of my health issues and would appreciate any prayers or good vibes you feel moved to offer. ❤

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SoCS: tornado?

I live in the Southern Tier of New York State and, like many places on earth, we’ve had weather weirding going on as a result of climate change, caused primarily by the burning of fossil fuels. (Yes, even in Stream of Consciousness, I need to make sure I am clear on the science I present on my blog!)

This summer, we’ve had lots of big temperature swings. We’ve had lines of thunderstorms that have had high winds. That isn’t unusual for us but what is unusual is the level of damage we are seeing.

Sometimes, it is straight line winds but this year we have had an unusual number of tornados. On the weather report on television a few days, if I’m remembering correctly, we had had 12 confirmed tornados in the state so far this year, well above our average of 5. (I’m not sure if those are the correct figures as I may have misremembered, so don’t quote me on them without checking first.)

Fortunately, the tornados near us have been small and on the weaker side of the F scale they use to grade tornados. Still, they have broken trees and damaged buildings in their path.

There have been some other areas where there was similar damage but caused by straight line winds. The chief meteoraligist from channel 12 was able to go out with the National Weather Service personnel on investigation of a possible tornado. They were explaining how they tell the difference between tornados and straight line winds by looking at the debris pattern. With a tornado, the trees will fall in different directions, whereas with straight line winds the trees will fall in the same direction. I’m sure there are other factors that they observe to make their determinations, especially the radar signatures during the storm, but they always look at the debris patterns before making a final determination.

There are so many people in the US and around the world suffering from weather-related disasters these days. I’m living in a place that has been luck this year compared to so many other places. For me, all these weather events are reminders that we need to move as quickly as possible away from fossil fuels to try to keep further increases of these disasters at bay.

Let’s go!
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Linda’s prompt for Stream of Consciosness Saturday this week is “wind.” Join us! Find out more here: https://lindaghill.com/2026/07/24/the-friday-reminder-and-prompt-for-socs-july-25-2026/

One-Liner Wednesday: ice cream mural

This is a small part of a mural currently being installed at Sugar Lips Ice Cream Shop in Johnson City, NY, USA.

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SoCS: in a brain fog

Sometimes, I remember what I used to know and be able to do.

Sometimes, I can’t.

The brain fog from the cerebellar ectopia is perhaps being made worse by my decline in kidney function.

Or maybe by the summer weather.

Hard to say.

It’s scary, though, especially because it’s been going on for over two years now. There is hope for untangling all the underlying factors and treating them – or, at least, some of them – but probably no guarantee of getting back all my lost functionality.

Sometimes, I manage to be hopeful in a realistic sort of way.

Sometimes, not so much.

Today, not so much.
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BCAC reading!

Just proving that I made it through the reading event at the Broome County (NY) Arts Council last night.

Things went well with poems, a short story in translation, music, paintings, and a film, all represented.

Thanks to Connie, Ann, and all the BCAC staff for making the America 250 exhibition and event possible. Thanks also to fellow poet Samantha Terrell who sent me this photo that her husband took while I was reading.

One-Liner Wednesday: BCAC America 250 reading tomorrow!

Binghamton NY area folks are invited to an event celebrating the Broome County Arts Council’s America 250 project tomorrow, July 16, at 6:30 PM, in which I will be participating.

This friendly invitation is part of Linda’s One-Liner Wednesdays series. Join us! Find out more here: https://lindaghill.com/2026/07/15/one-liner-wednesday-hey-dilly-dilly/