In the first few seasons of The Late Show, Stephen Colbert did a recurring skit, then a best-selling book, called Midnight Confessions, in which he “confesses” to his audience with the disclaimer that he isn’t sure these things are really sins but that he does “feel bad about them.” While Stephen and his writers are famously funny, I am not, so my JC’s Confessions will be somewhat more serious reflections, but they will be things that I feel bad about. Stephen’s audience always forgives him at the end of the segment; I’m not expecting that – and these aren’t really sins – but comments are always welcome.
I tend to stick with social media platforms, even when they do objectionable things.
I admire those who have stopped reading/posting on Facebook/Meta, X/twitter, Substack, etc. in a principled response to their behavior, but I haven’t been able to bring myself to follow suit.
Instead, I’ve carved out my own way to shelter myself from misinformation and vitriol. I use tools and filters so that I see posts from people I follow rather than a general feed. I manage to block most advertisements. I interact with some platforms, such as Substack, nearly exclusively through articles being sent to my email rather than going to their site. I try not to read comments on political, environmental, religious, or anything-even-vaguely-controversial posts, because things get nasty quickly. I’ve recently started limiting the comments on some of my posts on X to only people that I follow to avoid being attacked over believing in fossil-fuel-driven climate change.
Part of the reason I’ve maintained my presence on some platforms is that there are people with whom I’m connected only there. It’s also because I’m afraid to lose any contacts that I have for my blog and my poetry. I don’t have a large number of followers, so I’m loathe to cut any of them off.
This strategy has been working okay for me for now, but that could change. I’m hoping that my posts create tiny moments of sanity for those that do happen across them.
I also want to thank those that have left platforms for calling attention to problems with social media. I applaud your voices and your commitment.
Maybe, someday, I’ll manage to follow your example.
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Joanne Corey 
I’ve stayed with FB where my daughter shares photos, but boundaries are crucial. I need to remember to refrain from commenting on any public or controversial posts. Thanks for reinforcing this!
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I think it is easier for those of us who are mostly using FB for personal communication to stay. When it becomes a large part of someone’s business model, what happens on the platform as a whole takes on a larger weight. I’m grateful that, whatever happens with FB over time, we are connected here on WordPress.
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I agree! Thankful we are connected here.
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